FAther to Mother - ILY....and that makes the family...

FaMILY - Father says I love you to the Mother and thats when the family gets life. Now the father is too busy with Kindle, yoga, laptop, weekend baddy court ,phone and dont know what else when he is not into reading/eating/sleeping. The mother is busy in the kitchen, kids,studies, reading etc...There is always whole lot of noise in the house and Father hates it.Something is missing and the Pa-Ma combo is no more making a good couple .That has led me to think we are not a FaMily in the true spirit. Earlier, the four used to sit in the bed in the evenings , reading stories, fun fighting, hugging each other but not any more. To be frank, I am hating it. I didnt talk to Sree in the car saying he is not spending time with me. He says i am not talking to him when he comes to me.

We start the day together with yoga, drive to office together, meet for lunch, go for a walk in the campus but that glitter is not thr in his eyes nor in mine. Yesterday we spent time in The Baby Shop getting toys and stuffs but i didnt like it. Back home,i beat the children too, out of frustration. To add to the lack luster, they throw tantrums. The son has wounded his head and the daughter was sick, now has blister like things all over face. I want my lovely girl back - love her chubby cheeks and dimples, my son minus the tantrums - love my childly wildly boy ,my handsome balding husband - love his wit and wisdom.

Earnestly wish everything gets back to normal soon...

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